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reniimodisette • Dec 15, 2022

As I write my last blog post in 2022, I can’t help but think about how I came into the year. I walked into this year nudged with a desire to free myself of limiting beliefs, myths that I’d concocted of how far I could go, mentally fervent in the mindset of standard definition. Initially igniting the practice of self-forgiveness while being adamantly reminded that God doesn’t want me to mistake baggage for blessings. Moving directly ahead to stand in self-acceptance and unleash the unapologetic me. Growing in this year to walk into the next with faith bigger than me.

This year I realized that reminiscing about childhood friendships, my great escape through reading, brought me joy. In addition to unequivocal gratitude for the support that came in many forms and the foundation, I carry with me established by Big Mama. There is no denying that my small steps were encouraged by Kaleb’s heart, which filled my cup with Mental Victory Vibes. In the same way, self-care currency should not become insufficient funds. Faith over fear!

Meanwhile, deciding to choose me. Subsequently, checking my posture, then giving myself permission to discover wholeness. Hence, purging what no longer served me, ultimately experiencing mental weight loss for the first time in a long time. I am filled with tenacity. Faith in the plan instead of a plan.

On the other hand, recalling the things my father taught me, beginning with acknowledging my why and considering me. My dad taught me to always show up as the best version of myself. Ultimately putting into practice, once again, that being enough is singular. I am ABLE. Faith that He got me!

Above all, I can write my story while owning my individuality. Even more when I accept my uniqueness. I am no longer running or nipping, tucking my originality to make others comfortable while my mental outfit is three sizes too small. Doubtlessly, chipping away the bricks laid for emotional protection-loving me in spite of. Reclaiming my passion to:

  • ACKNOWLEDGE my originality every day.
  • BELIEVE that a voice lost is regained.
  • LOVE me because it’s not selfish- it’s kind.
  • Be ENCOURAGE and cultivate joy, sadness, and forgiveness. 

Accepting MORE as I determined what’s normal anyway in my new role as a parental consultant- an essential component to finding balance and setting boundaries. Establishing mutual respect and clarity about limitations, dealbreakers, or co-parenting with my daughter. Faith bigger than my fear of change!

My lawd! Then, I walked into VALUE season. Actually, realizing that I don’t have to show up like the eyewall of a hurricane, judging with destruction. I am okay with focusing on my eye by embracing days with milder wind gusts and days with thunderstorms and wind gusts greater than 90 mph. At last, I know I will be okay and not immobilized by the thunderstorms and high winds. Faith in the power of the all mighty!

I appreciate the person I am becoming. I have the strength, hope, and guidance of my ancestors. Abundance is my generational wealth. I strut in:

  • Vulnerability
  • Authenticity
  • Leading with Love
  • Uniqueness
  • Energy

Oh, but wait…I am in Receive It season. Redirection is God’s protection.

I intend to embrace the blessings on the way. Inventing in Me Time.

So, I can “Keep elevating, sis!”


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